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this space is for my rambling about the world, life & everything else. life isn't always pretty & sweet, so some words/pictures posted might be offensive or inappropriate for some. if you keep reading, take your own risks. suggestions & comments are always welcome. any complain? send it my way! only cowards talk behind one's back... ciao!


Tuesday, July 19, 2005

lesson of life

wassup people... i've been around... only extremely occupied with the moving that i had... packing, shipping, unpacking, reorganize everything... tiring and extremely time consuming... but oh well.. gotta do what you gotta do, right??

been away from 1 of my beloved cities for a week now... i can't describe how much i miss being in sf... i don't mean to insult those who love LA so much... but i'm sorry, i just don't see this city appealing at all... the longer i stay here, the more i find things that i don't like. my best friend keeps telling me to give this city a chance... well, i did, and i still don't like it... should i give it 1 more chance??? i should eh? at least make the best out of it, then move on...

moving on with life, trying to keep track on what you wanna do in life, and not looking back is so hard... but then life is good, beautiful and very interesting... i learn so much from everything happened in the past week... everything people always say is all coming true.. that:

  1. people (especially boyz) come and go in this life but true friends stay

  2. everybody we meet in this life always teaches us something... no matter how small it might be

  3. everything happens for a reason

  4. world is getting smaller and smaller... so never burn the bridges...

  5. there's no such thing called happily ever after in relationship... in order to grow and prosper, both parties need to work hard

  6. be careful what you wish for... if you want something, make sure you know what you want and be very specific

  7. you'll never know the taste of sweetness if you never taste the bitterness


i also wanna say 1 thing... some people might never believe that there's such thing called friendship between a man and a woman... but i used to have 1 and currently do have 1. he's my dearest friend, and i'm so grateful to have him in my life as a friend. more than friend?? rrr, i don't think i will ever wanna do that since i know that he's such a dog! :D ragazzo, ti voglio bene!

when you're already moving on with your life then someone from the past calls you and appears in front of you again... what would you do?

"sometimes we hold onto something that even God wants to break it apart"
~Tyler Perry - Diary of a Mad Black Woman